pacaran dijagat moderen sekarang ini, pacaran menjadi proses wajaib bagi mereka yang sedang jatuh cinta. wajib karena cinta dianggap sebagai gejolak jiwa yang emosional, dan pacaran adalah proses pemurnian cinta dari pengaruh-pengaruh emosional itu.
tanpa pacaran, cinta tak lebih sekedarlintasan jiwa yang tidak akan menemukan muara. andaipun berujung
dipelaminan dan terikat dalam akad nikah, cinta tanpa pacaran akan menemui keropos, karena antara saat berseminya cinta hingga berlangsungnya pernikahan tidak didahului oleh proses ta'aruf (pengenalan) dan taqarub (pendekatan) yang intensif. sedangkan dalam pacaran,ta'aruf dan taqarub itu berjalan sangat intensif. saking intensifnya, pelaku pacaran mengetahui dan melumat bagian yang paling sensitif dan rahasia dari pasangannya.
dengan demikian kita tidak membeli kucing.
itulah yang terjadi dijagat pacaran. dalam kesesatan dan pengaruh nafsu hewani, penghuninya berusaha mencari pembenaran atas apa yang mereka lakukan sekalipun nyata-nyata bahwa pacaran hanyalah upaya sesat untuk mengeksploitasi cinta demi pemuasan nafsu hewani. nyata-nyata dalam pacaran telah terjadi proses saling menipu. satu sama lain hanya memperlihatkan kebaikan dan kelebihan masing-masing, sementara realitas diri yang sesungguhnya ditutup-tutupi untuk mendapat kepuasan, pujian dan penerimaan.
nyata-nyata pacaran hanyalah cara sesat untuk memanfaatkan kelemahan dan kekalutan akal sehat sebagai akibat dari buaian perasaan cinta yang menggebu. selanjutnya segala rasa dicurahkan dalam bentuk perilaku yang nista bahkan oleh pelakunya sendiri, seperti saling tatap yang katanya " dimatamu ada cinta", saling berucap cinta untuk menunjukkan bahwa " didadaku hanya ada kamu", saling dekap dengan pelukan mesra seolah kedekatan keduanya takkan terhalang oleh samudra yang luas dan oleh gunung yang menjulang tinggi.
fenomena nista yang terjadi dijagat pacaran bukan rahasia lagi, namun realitas didepan mata yang kini sudah dianggap biasa dan lumrah dengan dalih untuk mencari kecocokan sebelum melangsungkan pernikahan. andai ternyata cocok, maka nikah dapat dilangsungkan. namun bila ternyata tidak cocok, maka untuk apa untuk berlanjut ke pelaminan, bukankah sebaiknya mencari pasangan lain sebagai gantinya?,
sebuah dalih yang bejat dan terlaknat. betapa tidak, perilaku nista dianggap sebagai jembatan menuju kesucian pernikahan. padahal, jawabnya tidak! sama sekali tidak ada! kecuali pada orang yang suka berbuat nista. dan untuk itu mereka menyabarkan kedustaan atas nama cinta. jadilah si cinta tersesat didunia fatamorgana demi mendapat kepuasan nafsu dan melupakan hakikat cinta itu sendiri,
seandainya cinta dipandang tidak hanya dengan perasaan, namun juga dengan akal pikiran yang sehat, tentu mereka akan lebih menyayangi diri mereka ketika menjalin hubungan yang tidak disyariatkan. apalagi untuk wanita, menjalin hubungan dengan lawan jenis atas nama cinta mestinya dipikir secara matang, lebih-lebih bila diajak kencan dan pacaran dengan jurang nista yang menganga. maka aneh bila serta merta menjerumuskan diri kejurang nista itu.
banyak wanita yang sangat mudah menerima ajakan pacaran dan berakhir dengan linangan air mata kata kesucian telah terenggut bahkan dengan
sangat mudah sementara laki-laki yang menodainya pergi begitu saja dengan alasan "bosan dan tidak cocok!!!!!!"
jadi, JANGAN KATAKAN CINTA kapada orang yang mengajak anda untuk berpacaran sebelum menikah, sekalipun dengan dalih yang argumentatif, realistis dan memukau jiwa anda. hati-hatilah dengan rayuan gombal demi mendapat cinta anda. hati-hatila!!!! karena dijagat pacaran banyak berkeliaran orang dengan tipe pengecut yang akan lari atau mencari kambing hitam ketika tanggung jawab harus mereka pikul. janganlah penyesalan demi penyesalan menjadi catatan hidup anda, karena bukan hal yang baik jika suatu kesenangan berakhir dengan kesedihan. orang yang berakal tentu dia tidak akan menerima suatu kebahagiaan yang sesat, lalu sesudah itu datang rasa pilu dan penyesalan yang mendalam. dengan menggapai kesucian dengan kenistaan. tanamlah benih-benih cinta pada kebun yang diridhoi oleh Allah SWT. InsyaAllah anda akan selamat didunia dan akhirat.
puisi
TUHANKU........ jangan biarkan aku sendiri
perasaan tak menentu menyulut batinku
hingar bingar dunia seakan sesepi mempi
keelokan alam menjadi sedingin salju
hambar tanpa rasa yang berarti
biarlah hanya masa depan yang kutatap
biarlah hikmah keikhlasan yang kuharap
riang perjalanan yang kuingini
akan kebenaran janji ilahi yang ku damba.
by me: rangkullah cintamu dengan jalan yang Allah ridhoi, niscaya kau akan menemukan muara cinta yang hakiki
apabila cinta sedang menggerogoti hati.... jadikanlah cinta itu sebagai ujian kesabaran dari Allah guna menjemput
kebahagian yang abadi
dari mb nurul
sumber : jangan katakan cinta ( Lukman Haqani)
berani mengambil keputusan ( Evi Ni'matuzzakiya)
sumber : JANGAN KATAKAN CINTA ( Lukman Haqani)
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Untuk Siapa Cintamu??
Cinta, cinta, cinta, kata yang sering buanget kita denger. Sebenarnya, apasih cinta?
Cinta dalam bahasa arab disebut mahabbah yang artinya kasih sayang. Menurut Abdullah Nashis Ulwan, cinta berarti perasaan jiwa dan gejolak hati yang mendorong seseorang mencintai kekasihya dengan penuh gairah, lembut dan kasih sayang.
Banyak dari kita yang nggak tahan dengan cinta ini, yang kemudian diekspresikan dengan ”nembak”. Bahkan sekarang kaum hawa mulai berani nembak cowok duluan. Mungkin mereka merasa emansipasi wanita harus disegala bidang, hingga nggak malu-malu untuk nembak cowok duluan.
Melihat fenomena ini, mungkin jarang kita lihat remaja yang jomblo. Klo nggak dapat pacar, rasanya maluuu..... banget. Emang iya??
Banyak dari kita lalu bangga dengan ”statusnya” punya pacar. Padahal cinta yang berarti perasaan jiwa untuk mencintai kekasihnya tidak tercermin dari perilaku tersebut.
Cinta yang dimaksud disini adalah cinta yang suci dan murni yang tidak tercampur oleh hawa nafsu. Cinta yang tertinggi adalah cinta pada Allah swt.
Kenapa pacaran??
Apa sih yang buat kita pengen pacaran? Remaja ternyata pengan mempunyai tempat curhat, yang menurut mereka bisa didapat dari pacar. Jadi pacar adalah tempat konseling gitu dech,hehe... Pengaruh lingkungan ternyata juga mempengaruhi buanget buat remaja. Melihat kecenderungan lingkungannya bergaul bebas antara cowok dan cewek, membuat mereka nggak malu-malu lagi buat pacaran. Kalo ada temen yang nggak pacaran or nggak punya pacar, dibilang nggak ikut trend!!! Duhh, Salah buanget tuh!!
Trus Cari solusinya
Cinta adalah anugerah.... fitrah. Jadi nggak salah kita punya rasa ini. Tapi, karena fitrah, maka perlu dirawat dengan baik dan dengan cara yang benar jangan sampai dikotori apalagi sampai hilang gara-gara dendam, sakit hati, iri or dengki. Jadi dosa kan??! Kita sebagai ABG muslim gitu lhoh, harus pede dengan keislaman kita, yang semuannya diatur sampai hal sekecil-kecilnya. Kalo kita pede ya pede juga dunk tuk jadi jomblo!!ok?!
Selain itu kita juga mesti banyak bergaul,jadi pikiran kita nggak buat mikirin pacaran. Aktif di banyak organisasi or ikutan kegiatan di sekolah,selain nambah pengalaman organisasi kita ,itu juga bisa bikin kita kreatif. Jadi kita nggak jadi remaja yang standart.
Kita juga harus melihat lingkungan sekitar, yang gara-gara bergaul bebas, banyak terjadi ha-hal yang tidak diinginkan. Seks bebas, sampai hamil di luar nikah. Iiihhh ngerii buangeet!!Na’udzubillah..kita tentu nggak mau terjadi hal yang sama pada kita or sobat kita. So, hati-hati dalam bergaul. Tau kan cerita seorang gadis yang cuantik, yang menunggu pemuda yang dikasihinya di surga. Karena cintanya yang mendalam pada Allah , mencegah sang pemuda berbuat zina, sehingga mengantarkan si gadis ke surga... subhanallah!!
”Dan di antara manusia ada orang-orang yang menyembah tandingan-tandingan selain Allah; mereka mencintainya sebagaimana mereka mencintai Allah. Adapun orang-orang yang beriman sangat cinta kepada Allah. Dan jika seandainya orang-orang yang berbuat zalim itu mengetahui ketika mereka melihat siksa(pada hari kiamat), bahwa kekuatan itu kepunyaan Allah semuanya dan bahwa Allah amat berat siksaan-Nya (niscaya mereka menyesal)” (Q.S:Al Baqarah 165)
Cinta dalam bahasa arab disebut mahabbah yang artinya kasih sayang. Menurut Abdullah Nashis Ulwan, cinta berarti perasaan jiwa dan gejolak hati yang mendorong seseorang mencintai kekasihya dengan penuh gairah, lembut dan kasih sayang.
Banyak dari kita yang nggak tahan dengan cinta ini, yang kemudian diekspresikan dengan ”nembak”. Bahkan sekarang kaum hawa mulai berani nembak cowok duluan. Mungkin mereka merasa emansipasi wanita harus disegala bidang, hingga nggak malu-malu untuk nembak cowok duluan.
Melihat fenomena ini, mungkin jarang kita lihat remaja yang jomblo. Klo nggak dapat pacar, rasanya maluuu..... banget. Emang iya??
Banyak dari kita lalu bangga dengan ”statusnya” punya pacar. Padahal cinta yang berarti perasaan jiwa untuk mencintai kekasihnya tidak tercermin dari perilaku tersebut.
Cinta yang dimaksud disini adalah cinta yang suci dan murni yang tidak tercampur oleh hawa nafsu. Cinta yang tertinggi adalah cinta pada Allah swt.
Kenapa pacaran??
Apa sih yang buat kita pengen pacaran? Remaja ternyata pengan mempunyai tempat curhat, yang menurut mereka bisa didapat dari pacar. Jadi pacar adalah tempat konseling gitu dech,hehe... Pengaruh lingkungan ternyata juga mempengaruhi buanget buat remaja. Melihat kecenderungan lingkungannya bergaul bebas antara cowok dan cewek, membuat mereka nggak malu-malu lagi buat pacaran. Kalo ada temen yang nggak pacaran or nggak punya pacar, dibilang nggak ikut trend!!! Duhh, Salah buanget tuh!!
Trus Cari solusinya
Cinta adalah anugerah.... fitrah. Jadi nggak salah kita punya rasa ini. Tapi, karena fitrah, maka perlu dirawat dengan baik dan dengan cara yang benar jangan sampai dikotori apalagi sampai hilang gara-gara dendam, sakit hati, iri or dengki. Jadi dosa kan??! Kita sebagai ABG muslim gitu lhoh, harus pede dengan keislaman kita, yang semuannya diatur sampai hal sekecil-kecilnya. Kalo kita pede ya pede juga dunk tuk jadi jomblo!!ok?!
Selain itu kita juga mesti banyak bergaul,jadi pikiran kita nggak buat mikirin pacaran. Aktif di banyak organisasi or ikutan kegiatan di sekolah,selain nambah pengalaman organisasi kita ,itu juga bisa bikin kita kreatif. Jadi kita nggak jadi remaja yang standart.
Kita juga harus melihat lingkungan sekitar, yang gara-gara bergaul bebas, banyak terjadi ha-hal yang tidak diinginkan. Seks bebas, sampai hamil di luar nikah. Iiihhh ngerii buangeet!!Na’udzubillah..kita tentu nggak mau terjadi hal yang sama pada kita or sobat kita. So, hati-hati dalam bergaul. Tau kan cerita seorang gadis yang cuantik, yang menunggu pemuda yang dikasihinya di surga. Karena cintanya yang mendalam pada Allah , mencegah sang pemuda berbuat zina, sehingga mengantarkan si gadis ke surga... subhanallah!!
”Dan di antara manusia ada orang-orang yang menyembah tandingan-tandingan selain Allah; mereka mencintainya sebagaimana mereka mencintai Allah. Adapun orang-orang yang beriman sangat cinta kepada Allah. Dan jika seandainya orang-orang yang berbuat zalim itu mengetahui ketika mereka melihat siksa(pada hari kiamat), bahwa kekuatan itu kepunyaan Allah semuanya dan bahwa Allah amat berat siksaan-Nya (niscaya mereka menyesal)” (Q.S:Al Baqarah 165)
Love
If a girl loves a boy from a far, has she committed a sin?
Praise be to Allah.
Islam came to close the doors that lead to evil and sin, and is keen to block all the means that may lead to corruption of hearts and minds. Love and infatuation between the sexes are among the worst of problems.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/129):
Love is a psychological sickness, and if it grows strong it affects the body, and becomes a physical sickness, either as diseases of the brain, which are said to be diseases caused by waswaas, or diseases of the body such as weakness, emaciation and so on. End quote.
And he (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/132):
Loving a non-mahram woman leads to many negative consequences, the full extent of which is known only to the Lord of people. It is a sickness that affects the religious commitment of the sufferer, then it may also affect his mind and body. End quote.
It is sufficient to note that one of the effects of love of a member of the opposite sex is enslavement of the heart which is held captive to the loved one. So love is a door that leads to humiliation and servility. That is sufficient to put one off this sickness.
Ibn Taymiyah (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/185):
If a man is in love with a woman, even if she is permissible for him, his heart remains enslaved to her, and she can control him as she wishes, even though outwardly he appears to be her master, because he is her husband; but in fact he is her prisoner and slave, especially if she is aware of his need and love for her. In that case, she will control him like a harsh and oppressive master controls his abject slave who cannot free himself from him. Rather he is worse off than that, because enslavement of the heart is worse than enslavement of the body. End quote.
Attachment to the opposite sex will not happen to a heart that is filled with love of Allah; it only affects a heart that is empty and weak, so it is able to gain control of it, then when it becomes strong and powerful it is able to defeat the love of Allah and lead the person into shirk. Hence it is said: Love is the action of an empty heart.
If the heart is devoid of the love and remembrance of the Most Merciful, and is a stranger to speaking to Him, it will be filled with love of women, images and listening to music.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/135):
If the heart loves Allah alone and is sincerely devoted to Him, it will not even think of loving anyone else in the first place, let alone falling in love. When a heart falls in love that is due to the lack of love for Allah alone. Hence because Yusuf loved Allah and was sincerely devoted to Him, he did not fall into the trap of love, rather Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Thus it was, that We might turn away from him evil and illegal sexual intercourse. Surely, he was one of Our chosen, (guided) slaves” [Yusuf 12:24]
As for the wife of al-‘Aziz, she was a mushrik as were her people, hence she fell into this trap. End quote.
The Muslim must save himself from this fate and not fall short in guarding against it and ridding himself of it. If he falls short in that regard and follows the path of love, by continuing to steal haraam glances or listening to haraam things, and being careless in the way he speaks to the opposite sex, etc, then he is affected by love as a result, then he is sinning and will be subject to punishment for his actions.
How many people have been careless at the beginning of this problem, and thought that they were able to rid themselves of it whenever they wanted, or that they could stop at a certain limit and not go any further, until the sickness took a strong hold and no doctor or remedy could help?
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Rawdat al-Muhibbeen (147):
If the cause happens by his choice, he has no excuse for the consequences that are beyond his control, but if the reason is haraam, the drunkard had no excuse. Undoubtedly following one glance with another and allowing oneself to keep thinking about the person is like drinking intoxicants: he is to be blamed for the cause. End quote.
If a person strives to keep away from the things that lead to this serious sickness, by lowering his gaze and not looking at haraam things, not listening to haraam things, and averting the passing thoughts that the shaytaan casts into his mind, then after that something of the evils of this sickness befalls him because of a passing glance or a transaction that is basically permissible, and his heart becomes attached to a woman, there is no sin on him for that Insha Allah, because Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Allah burdens not a person beyond his scope” [al-Baqarah 2:286]
Ibn Taymiyah (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (11/10):
If that does not result from carelessness or transgression on his part, then there is no sin on him for what befalls him. End quote.
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Rawdat al-Muhibbeen (147):
If love occurs for a reason that is not haraam, the person is not to be blamed, such as one who loved his wife or slave woman, then he separated from her but the love remained and did not leave him. He is not to be blamed for that. Similarly if there was a sudden glance then he averted his gaze, but love took hold of his heart without him meaning it to, he must, however, ward it off and resist it. End quote.
But he must treat his heart by putting a stop to the effects of this love, and by filling his heart with love of Allah and seeking His help in that. He should not feel too shy to consult intelligent and trustworthy people for advice or consult some doctors and psychologists, because he may find some remedy with them. In doing that he must be patient, seek reward, remain chaste and keep quiet, and Allah will decree reward for him Insha Allah.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/133):
If he is tested with love but he remains chaste and is patient, then he will be rewarded for fearing Allah. It is known from shar’i evidence that if a person remains chaste and avoids haraam things in looking, word and deeds, and he keeps quiet about it and does not speak of it, so that there will be haraam talk about that, whether by complaining to another person or committing evil openly, or pursuing the beloved one in any way, and he is patient in obeying Allah and avoiding sin, despite the pain of love that he feels in his heart, just as one who is afflicted with a calamity bears the pain of it with patience, then he will be one of those who fear Allah and are patient, “Verily, he who fears Allah with obedience to Him (by abstaining from sins and evil deeds, and by performing righteous good deeds), and is patient, then surely, Allah makes not the reward of the Muhsinoon (good doers) to be lost” [Yusuf 12:90]. End quote.
See also questions no. 20949 and 33702.
And Allah knows best.
Praise be to Allah.
Islam came to close the doors that lead to evil and sin, and is keen to block all the means that may lead to corruption of hearts and minds. Love and infatuation between the sexes are among the worst of problems.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/129):
Love is a psychological sickness, and if it grows strong it affects the body, and becomes a physical sickness, either as diseases of the brain, which are said to be diseases caused by waswaas, or diseases of the body such as weakness, emaciation and so on. End quote.
And he (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/132):
Loving a non-mahram woman leads to many negative consequences, the full extent of which is known only to the Lord of people. It is a sickness that affects the religious commitment of the sufferer, then it may also affect his mind and body. End quote.
It is sufficient to note that one of the effects of love of a member of the opposite sex is enslavement of the heart which is held captive to the loved one. So love is a door that leads to humiliation and servility. That is sufficient to put one off this sickness.
Ibn Taymiyah (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/185):
If a man is in love with a woman, even if she is permissible for him, his heart remains enslaved to her, and she can control him as she wishes, even though outwardly he appears to be her master, because he is her husband; but in fact he is her prisoner and slave, especially if she is aware of his need and love for her. In that case, she will control him like a harsh and oppressive master controls his abject slave who cannot free himself from him. Rather he is worse off than that, because enslavement of the heart is worse than enslavement of the body. End quote.
Attachment to the opposite sex will not happen to a heart that is filled with love of Allah; it only affects a heart that is empty and weak, so it is able to gain control of it, then when it becomes strong and powerful it is able to defeat the love of Allah and lead the person into shirk. Hence it is said: Love is the action of an empty heart.
If the heart is devoid of the love and remembrance of the Most Merciful, and is a stranger to speaking to Him, it will be filled with love of women, images and listening to music.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/135):
If the heart loves Allah alone and is sincerely devoted to Him, it will not even think of loving anyone else in the first place, let alone falling in love. When a heart falls in love that is due to the lack of love for Allah alone. Hence because Yusuf loved Allah and was sincerely devoted to Him, he did not fall into the trap of love, rather Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Thus it was, that We might turn away from him evil and illegal sexual intercourse. Surely, he was one of Our chosen, (guided) slaves” [Yusuf 12:24]
As for the wife of al-‘Aziz, she was a mushrik as were her people, hence she fell into this trap. End quote.
The Muslim must save himself from this fate and not fall short in guarding against it and ridding himself of it. If he falls short in that regard and follows the path of love, by continuing to steal haraam glances or listening to haraam things, and being careless in the way he speaks to the opposite sex, etc, then he is affected by love as a result, then he is sinning and will be subject to punishment for his actions.
How many people have been careless at the beginning of this problem, and thought that they were able to rid themselves of it whenever they wanted, or that they could stop at a certain limit and not go any further, until the sickness took a strong hold and no doctor or remedy could help?
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Rawdat al-Muhibbeen (147):
If the cause happens by his choice, he has no excuse for the consequences that are beyond his control, but if the reason is haraam, the drunkard had no excuse. Undoubtedly following one glance with another and allowing oneself to keep thinking about the person is like drinking intoxicants: he is to be blamed for the cause. End quote.
If a person strives to keep away from the things that lead to this serious sickness, by lowering his gaze and not looking at haraam things, not listening to haraam things, and averting the passing thoughts that the shaytaan casts into his mind, then after that something of the evils of this sickness befalls him because of a passing glance or a transaction that is basically permissible, and his heart becomes attached to a woman, there is no sin on him for that Insha Allah, because Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Allah burdens not a person beyond his scope” [al-Baqarah 2:286]
Ibn Taymiyah (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (11/10):
If that does not result from carelessness or transgression on his part, then there is no sin on him for what befalls him. End quote.
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Rawdat al-Muhibbeen (147):
If love occurs for a reason that is not haraam, the person is not to be blamed, such as one who loved his wife or slave woman, then he separated from her but the love remained and did not leave him. He is not to be blamed for that. Similarly if there was a sudden glance then he averted his gaze, but love took hold of his heart without him meaning it to, he must, however, ward it off and resist it. End quote.
But he must treat his heart by putting a stop to the effects of this love, and by filling his heart with love of Allah and seeking His help in that. He should not feel too shy to consult intelligent and trustworthy people for advice or consult some doctors and psychologists, because he may find some remedy with them. In doing that he must be patient, seek reward, remain chaste and keep quiet, and Allah will decree reward for him Insha Allah.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/133):
If he is tested with love but he remains chaste and is patient, then he will be rewarded for fearing Allah. It is known from shar’i evidence that if a person remains chaste and avoids haraam things in looking, word and deeds, and he keeps quiet about it and does not speak of it, so that there will be haraam talk about that, whether by complaining to another person or committing evil openly, or pursuing the beloved one in any way, and he is patient in obeying Allah and avoiding sin, despite the pain of love that he feels in his heart, just as one who is afflicted with a calamity bears the pain of it with patience, then he will be one of those who fear Allah and are patient, “Verily, he who fears Allah with obedience to Him (by abstaining from sins and evil deeds, and by performing righteous good deeds), and is patient, then surely, Allah makes not the reward of the Muhsinoon (good doers) to be lost” [Yusuf 12:90]. End quote.
See also questions no. 20949 and 33702.
And Allah knows best.
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